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I am a student and I love to go to the gym and I'm really into keeping fit. My older sister is the same and sometimes I go to the gym with her and her friends. I recently met a girl through my older sister. We started going to the gym together and after a while and she told me that she takes an enema occasionally to help clean out her system. I didn't really think too much about it until one day, she asked me if I would come over and hang out with her. I went and we were having a good time in her swimming pool when she took off her bathing suit. She had a fenced in yard and no one else was going to be home for the day, so I thought she probably did this often. I thought it was funny and took mine off and threw it aside too. After our swim, we went inside for a snack and she very bluntly asked me if I had ever taken an enema. I said no, and she said I should come to her room and help her because she was going to do one and she could use my help. I was curious, so I said ok and followed her upstairs. She got out some 'equipment' and filled a bag and handed it to me and asked me if I would insert the tube into her anus for her. I felt really odd, but she is a good friend, so I did it. She told me what to do and after a minute or so, she started massaging her clitoris and she made herself orgasm very intensely. She also asked me if I would massage her abdomen for her so she could accept more solution. I did whatever she told me to because I felt kind of odd, but I didn't feel threatened or anything. She reached orgasm several times in less that five minutes. So, I would like to know if this is a really weird thing f to do or is it ok? I am a heterosexual and I know that she is as well, but I don't know if this changes anything. She claims that she just likes the way it feels when someone is helping her. Also, do people often use enemas to heighten sexual arousal? Answer Dear Enemate Most people don't know that there is a large underground network of people who find enemas erotic, and who yearn for a sexual partner who shares their interest. Check out Enema Sex.Com for more material on this. Erotic Enemas are often practiced by those who discovered early that the anus has as many nerve endings as the end of the penis or the clitoris, and that sexual stimulation is enhanced when the rectum is distended with solution Enemas are also considered by some psychologists to be highly symbolic of pregnancy. Note the similarity of penetration, depositing of fluid, increased abdominal volume, possibly some abdominal cramping (labor pains) and expulsion of the enema fluid which is symbolic of both the "waters breaking" and delivery. Sex therapists would describe this as sexual experimentation." Enemas can be the sex play in either gender. That is, one's preference to include enemas has no bearing on his or her sexual gender identity. In the same sense that some women are acutely aware of the internal sensation of orgasm that is different when they have nothing in the vaginal canal, than when they do (a penis or a dildo to squeeze against internally), others report that their orgasm is significantly stronger when their rectum distended with solution, and I suspect that it has to do with subtle pressure on the pelvic floor. And both men and women report extraordinarily greater orgasms if they expel the enema solution simultaneously with climax. So is it weird? No, it is a learned preference. Think of the experience as a safe sex event that provided you with behavioral information for you to evaluate. It speaks to your sexual flexibility and the extent to which you escaped societal-induced homophobia. If you repeat the experience it will likely either become a "been there, done that, so what" event or an eye-opening "Wow, I never knew I had this extra erogenous zone (and boy oh boy am I glad I found it!)." |
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